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I'm passionate about organ donation

Posted Tuesday, April 24, 2012, at 4:14 PM

Last week was National Organ and Tissue Donor Awareness Week. Over the past several years, organ donation is something I have become very passionate about.

When I received my driver's license after turning 16, I answered "yes" to becoming an organ donor. I had no idea then how organ donation would impact my life and the lives of my family.

Nearly eight years ago, my mother-in-law, Phyllis Franklin, received a life-saving liver transplant at Indiana University Medical Center in Indianapolis. On Mother's Day of 2004, my mother-in-law was blessed with a new lease on life, what an amazing Mother's Day resent.

This Mother's Day, we will recognize the eight-year anniversary of her transplant, and we will thank our Lord and Savior for Phyllis, as she is such a blessing to our entire family.

From the moment we found out she needed a transplant (even before her son and I were married) I felt the need to encourage others to become organ donors.

The decision an anonymous donor made has changed the lives of everyone in our family -- especially my children. Thanks to that donor, my children have their grandma (and of course, Papaw [Dale] Franklin).

Without that donor, my kids would not have had Grandma and Grandpa to take them to the park, read stories to them, or bake cookies with them. But, thanks to that donor, my kids have the opportunity to play at the park with Grandma and Grandpa, read stories with Grandma, and make a mess in the kitchen baking cookies with Grandma.

Prior to the procedure, Phyllis said she wanted to see my oldest daughter, start kindergarten and learn to read. Phyllis is a children's librarian, so reading has always been important to her.

Now, Brooklyn is finishing third grade and is an excellent reader. My oldest son is now finishing first grade and is a great reader. When they were little, Phyllis would always read to them. Now, they take turns reading to each other. Every time I see them sharing the recliner reading books to each other, I am reminded of how blessed we are.

At the time of her surgery, my oldest child was 15-months-old and I was carrying my second child. Without her transplant, I'm certain Phyllis wouldn't have lived long enough to see the birth of my twins (born in December 2008).

There are not words to express how grateful I am for the decision an anonymous donor gave to give life to someone else.

I always joke with Phyllis and call her "my evil mother-in-law," but she is far from that. In reality, I am truly blessed to have such fabulous in-laws. Dale and Phyllis are such wonderful, loving people. I will never be able to thank them enough for the many ways they have shaped my life and the lives of my husband and children. I can honestly say that I am a better person because of them. I love both of them more than I will ever be able to express with words.

I urge everyone to consider becoming an organ donor. Talk to your family about your decision. Someone's decision to become an organ donor not only changed the life of my mother-in-law, but also changed the lives of our entire family.

For more information on organ donation, visit www.iopo.org or www.donatelifeindiana.org .

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We should all be so lucky to hear such kind words from our daughters in law. Great article.

-- Posted by njc07 on Wed, Apr 25, 2012, at 9:08 AM

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